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Saturday, 24 February 2007
IS is then a WAS

Actually this is one of my old posts that i read and felt good afterwards, so i thought of bringing it in my blog again ... One of the way we learn in life is through our mistakes ..let an is becomes a was ..

Our problem is that when we are not feeling good , we had that calculator that starts counting all our mistakes over lifetime and when we get the result we start feeling crushed like god i never learn from my mistakes ...

but just a minute , mistakes can happen , think of the mistake you have just done now and before and compare it in volume not in number ..... it's human nature , that we always remember the bad parts in our character and deeds but the nice things just dont come in mind .... so stop punishing yourself and hurting others and yourself ..

Unluckily sometimes we try our best to make others so happy because we love them .... Then we forget the most important thing which is "the right time" and just say something that can blow up all what we did , it feels like you had an exam and then u failed .. ya awfual i know .. but anyways we should always try not to push others so hard with our feelings and thoughts , they have enough .. If you felt bad of what you did just make it was and start feeling good , dont feel guilty because it just kills to burden yourself with that amount of guilt ..
Some things to follow:

Learning lessons is usually a painful experience, but it doesn't have to be so ..
Dont spend a long time experiencing pain, just go ahead with your life and look at everything positively ..
If you hurt someone, dont say:

" I am mean because i hurt somone " but say, "I am a nice person who hurt someone and i am gona apologize" ...

If someone hurt you say:
"I've learned that noboday's perfect, and i dont expect myself to be perfect anymore"

We always try to help others in many situations, if u can't help them at least dont hurt them ..
Much of our pain is self-chosen. we choose whether to remain depressed or happy .. it is all in our hands ... So why dont u just sing your tragedy goodbye and grin
Ur mood acts like mirror.Your mood reflects on many parts of you and that radiates beauty, warmth and love (if u r happy) ,,, anger, tension and hatred (if u r in a bad mood)
So why u spend a long time on miseries ,, make them WAS and enjoy ur life .. LIFE IS GREAT
P.S: Love you ..

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