Sunday 14 October 2007
Misconception
“A misconception happens when a person believes in a concept that is objectively false”. This is a problem that I can call it a psychological issue where some individuals may have. You can realize that we are dealing with different stereotypes with different traits and characters. And such a misunderstanding can often occur between people. Basically we are human of emotion and not logic and that what triggers our emotions and overwhelm us with such misunderstanding. Being positive can be a solution but again some people face a difficulty letting go of misconception and that because the false belief is ingrained in their brain. Attitude, behavior, tone of voice and body language can create a huge leak in anyone’s relationship and we cannot deny the fact that they don’t have a negative or maybe positive influence. These features are pretty enough to generate misconception at times thorough communication. Sometimes you’ll say we cannot believe in everything. And other’s might say we should trust others and believe in them. Each scenario can at least lead to unfavorable conclusion and a sense of misconception. Human being is a mysterious creature and you cannot understand them all the time because their brain functions and interpret differently, different than yours. One person can assume that he/she never had a bad mood in their whole life or they are so quite, nice or angry. All of us pass through these moods depending on the situation we pass through but that with different degree.
Justification in my perspective can resolve such a problem because it gives your partner enough facts to state wither your situation is excusable, understandable or not. We should put excuses for others and have positive beliefs but again this becomes a hectic task if we don’t find rational justifications for others act or behavior that can help us crossing out the misconception. An example can be cleared in a phone call. You call a friend of yours and she is so furious in an abnormal way and hung up. Here you’ll say she is busy, tired, had a fight, angry, pressured, or maybe sleepy. Then such a scenario is frequently repeated and you start putting your excuses. Finally you’ll end up drained and admitting that the problem might be simply you. But if the other person states clearly the reasons behind such a manner, you’ll be so relieved and able to excuse them. So here we should always provide logical reasons for any behavior to avoid falling in a misconception that can push your beloved or friends far away because if the excuses are finished, your relationship with them might be terminated.
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