Sunday, 22 July 2007
Feeling Important
Why most people go insane?
People may go insane in order to find, in the dreamland of insanity the feeling of importance that has been denied them in the harsh world of reality. There is nothing wrong with their brain cells, and you can never know why did they went insane because every person has been in many situations were they felt less important. so a case can differ from one to another.
Everyone of us needs to have a sense of importance. if you tell me how you get your feeling of importance, i can tell you what you are. It actually determines your character. Sometimes u'll see a person who tries his best to publish writings, well that's how he feels important and everyone of us has his/her own way of feeling important. You'll wonder at times when u see people cry or maybe lie and i am pretty sure that this is the way how they can get sympathy or attention to feel important. That's why we should always respect people's reaction or behaviour through any event or situation because every person has his/her own way. But that can really be a problem in their way of thinking that can make them do either good or bad things just to feel important. but in my point view, it's not really excuseable to lie for such a reason but those people keep using such a habit and they might say we can't stop. well, they should start making it not really important to them.
You can never get attention or loyality from people if you start criticizing them, however you should always appreciate and encourage them and that's what great managers do to increase the company's productivity. and that's what you can do to make others listen to you and value what you say. "There is nothing i need so much as nourishment for my self-esteem". This is what one of the actors of his time has said once. We always try to nourish our children and friends bodies with food but we seldom nourish their self-esteem. Shall we provide them with pitzza, no it's just a word of appreciation that would sing in their memories for years and you might be remembered during lifetime. So give honest and sincere appreciation and stop criticizing and condemn or complain.
Have a nice day =)
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